Derek,
The 3/8 W bolt head measures .710" across the flats. the closest metric wrench is 19mm which measures .765 across the flats. The closest US wrench is 3/4" which measures .755 across the flats. Neither substitute is very close to fitting the Whitworth.
You're right, it's a mess. I just keep a variety of wrenches & can usually find a fit. If not, I have to go buy another wrench.
D