my wife doesn't work, but she makes about $600-800 a month selling mens shirts (polo, izod, ralph lauren, etc...) we are planning to have a child, and so far, we have 99% of what it takes to raise a kid (minus diapers/food) for about the first 5 years of their lives. our wedding would have cost almost 20 grand, but by getting most of our stuff on e-bay, it only cost in the ballpark, of 8K and I'm starting to sell my old comic books to get some scratch to put back into the midget. Ebay is a wonderful tool, but the only reason I can think that somebody doesn't want paypal, is because they don't have a checking account, or they are trying to scam you. we get one everycouple of months with a bad check, but for the most part my wife only accepts paypal, and postal money orders, and cashiers checks.