For flywheel to crankshaft, Don't use standard bolts at all! Either ARP or reproductions of the original flywheel bolts. TRF P/N is 138527.
Very high, repetitive stresses in those bolts; and you don't want them to fail. There's a reason they cost $2.40 each (more from ARP).
The clutch bolts take a lot less stress, IMO ordinary Grade 5 is fine there.
Just as a general rule, when the original fastener part number is 5 or 6 digits, there is something special about the fastener and ordinary hardware store stuff won't do. But when the original P/N starts with 2 letters followed by 2-4 digits (eg the cover plate bolts are Stanpart HU856), then it's a "standard" fastener and all you need do is match the dimensions in Grade 5 or above.
Don't forget the locating dowels for both flywheel to crank and cover to flywheel. They're important.
BTW, I would also suggest new lockwashers for the clutch bolts; and Loctite on the flywheel bolts. The racers say the locktabs are a bad idea, and Loctite is cheaper anyway. If you do use locktabs, be sure to get new ones.