Griot's Garage has quality products and free shipping until July 4th. Since we live in Washington we have to pay sales tax, but you would if you went in to their store in Tacoma anyway. If you're in the Sea-Tac area, and haven't been it's worth a look.
I used to use Meguire's Wax, Detailer, etc, but have changed to Griots. I think that if you use a full line of products from any one maker, you will get great results, I'm just partial to Griot's as of now.
If you want it to shine like new or wet, start with CLAY. You'll need detailing spray as a lubricant, but you'll want that anyway later in the process... Next up is POLISH, either by hand or with an orbital machine polisher. That should bring the shine back where you used the rubbing compound. The next step, if you see swirl marks and scratches is PAINT GLAZE, to fill in the low spots. After that hit it with WAX. The Griot's stuff (BEST OF SHOW WAX) can be applied (if you are a fanatic) in layers, without removing the previous one. WAX, allow for it to dry at least 8 hours, apply another layer, wait again, apply one more layer, wait, then buff out. JEEPERS what a glow!... Go over the car again with spray detailer to add that still wet look once you arrive at the show.
My paint is over 15 years old, and I had people asking me if I just painted the car.
NFI.