Update:
I used a work around trick from the Megasquirt manual to smooth out my vacuum signal and determined that the "miss" was caused by the erratically bouncing vacuum signal freaking out the ECU. I fixed the vacuum leaks (so I thought) and took it for a spin, and the car seemed very drivable if not totally perfect.
Gotta call from my wife's mum, seems my wife's little brother (by 12 years) who is in his 1st month of college dropped 3 hits of acid, lost his truck, wallet and phone and called his grandma early in the morning to ask her to come rescue him from the devil.So I thought, If I have to drive 45 minutes to deal with this moron, I might as well have fun...
Well somewhere between here and there my vacuum leak opened up again and the car started running scary lean. I couldn't really deal with the problem with the space cadet in tow, so I just sucked it up and drove home hoping that "closed loop mode" would keep me from melting my pistons.
I am taking a bit of break from messing with the car, because my frustration level is through the roof. I am definitely inquiring whether or not I should even keep messing with this car. I do not think this car works well with my personality. I am not very meticulous and a bit hasty and reckless. I am also impatient and easily frustrated. And even though my wife is very supportive of my project, my dysfunctional relationship with my car is bleeding into my relationship with my family. When I am upset about something with the car, I tend to carry that upset everywhere I go.
The real bummer about the situation is that I really think my fuel injection adaptation I designed is pretty clever. And I am confident that if I could ever work out all my mechanical issues, the injection would work quite well. Also, If I sell the car now, of course, I will be throwing away many $1000s of dollars invested in this project.
Ugh! Sorry for the emotional dump. I feel like a pretty big loser right now.