Hi Adrio,
The relay mounts on the cockpit side of the firewall, just above and to the right of the gearbox cover. It's sort of, but not exactly on the internal side opposite the starter solenoid mounting point. You should find one or two short, unused studs there. I'm guessing without looking that they are #8 or #10 NF threaded.
The wiring comes out through an approx. 1/2" diameter hole in the gearbox cover, near the front and slightly off center to the right. I imagine there was a rubber grommet in that hole to protect the wiring and that it just sort of snakes out from under the gearbox's carpet cover up near the firewall.
Have fun!
Alan Myers
San Jose, Calif.
'62 TR4 CT17602L