Paul,
Sorry about your mishap. Glad you're both OK. It really stinks when you are just the person in the wrong place at the wrong time. I would call Sports & Classics in Darien, CT and see if they still have the OEM hood, fender and front bumper in stock. I've seen them advertised from there. Not cheap but you have the right to make that car whole and as I would bet, there was no Bondo on that hood or fender prior to the accident and you should not have to live with any after it's repaired either. If anyone tries to save that hood, it will absolutely require some filler. These body guys are magicians but only to a certain extent.
This could be a real boon for Hagerty. I had been reluctant to switch because of the extremely low premiums, I was not sure if they actually came through when you need them. I'll be closely watching this thread.
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