Jim, most electrical connectors use special tools to release the retaining clips on the pins for removal. I don't know what type of tool you would need, but you might try contacting British Wiring and see what they advise. The other alternative would be to take a sample connector to a local electronics supply store and see if they could identify a tool that would work. I've used tiny screw drivers or even made tools up from brass tubing in a pinch. You might try to find a piced of thin wall brass tubing that will just slip over the pin and then find a solid piece that will slip inside. You push the outer section into the end of the connector to release the clips and then push the pin out with the inner rod. There us usually a special crimp tool needed as well and these aren't cheap, but really are almost necessary to get a good connection that will reinsert well into the connector housing. Using the wrong crimp tool may spread the contact too much to insert into the housing. Good luck.