Heat always helps loosen anything. But unless you have ideal conditions you can be in for a hazzardous/dangerous situation. If you are working with the car on jack stands and you are laying on the floor. realize that with grease and paint around in close quarters and with limited movement on your part, a fire is a real possibility. If you do want to heat it, have a helper there with a water bottle and or fire extinguisher. Also even tho you heat it, you have very limited ability to move the joint which most likely would be necessary to get things loosened up. It is not that hard to take the spring loose from the axle. Then you can separate the spring shackle with out any tension on it.
I had the same situation with my shackles (hard grease, and wouldnot take new grease). While restoring the body, I looked closely at the shackles, bolts and bushings. The bolts and bushings were worn considerably and no amount of grease was going to take up that much play. So it was time to change bushings and bolts. I might suspect that your parts are worn as well. Maybe time to bite the bullet and take it apart. I believe I did a thread withing the last year about what I had to do to change the bushings. Dave.