This heavily depends on how you're gonna drive the car. Do you like hole shots? Are you looking for more "oomph" from dead starts? Do you drive agresively? Then go for the 4.11.
But for driveability, I vote for the 3.89. A 4.11 is a very geary ratio IMHO. With the 3.89 your revs should be somewhere in the high 3000s at about 60, and give you all the grunt you need around town.
The 4.11 makes any kind of highway speeds VERY revvy.
To each his own, but for casual, around town driving and occasional highway jaunts, I'd go with the 3.89.