Dave and Marlene, from my family to your family, all the wishes and love and thoughts of support that you need go out to you. May all the angels and spirits and teachers and higher powers watch over you, help you and comfort you during the coming days.
Dave, the road ahead is uncertain at best, but know you do not travel it alone. Many if not most of us have been touched by cancer in one form or another. All of us go with you in spirit, if not in body. You are surrounded by all of our thoughts, wishes, prayers and love.
Marlene, you too are surrounded by the same thoughts, wishes, prayers and love. Your road as caretaker for Dave is as uncertain as his. You too do not travel it alone. There is a community of support for both of you out there, a piece of it being here at BCF.
Depending on where you live, you may be near a wonderful resource called Gilda's Club. Gilda's Club was founded by Gilda Radner, of Saturday Night Live fame. It is a place for people with cancer and their families and friends to get support, information and a community. My only connection to Gilda's Club is that my wife and I went there during her journey with cancer. It was tremendously helpful. She came through her journey and is thankful still for the support she found there.
Go with love and light on your journey. Where ever it takes you, may your journey be one of grace and ease.
The Wilkens-Hays family.