We'd known each other 20 years, work friends and got together after she divorced, mutual idea. First date, I pulled out the chair for her at a place, she looked at me like "what are you doing??", her ex had never done that before. Anyway, long story short she had to deal with a family covid thing with her elderly folks out of state from here, and disappeared. Stopped social media, phone would ring till messages, email stopped, everything. So I hope she decided to start over or something.
So, more than anyone wanted to know...