If I haven't learned anything else from my five years of running this forum, I have learned that you can't please everyone and it's generally an exercise in futility to try.
There has been a lot of interesting discussion here about a rule that I've had at BFC since the day I opened the forum. It seems that some folks agree with my stance and some have a different view. That’s fine, and I respect all opinions, but in the end this is a private forum which is paid for almost totally out of my pocket (and I have literally spent thousands to not only keep BCF online, but to continually improve, upgrade, and add new features). It is a place where anyone who has a love of British cars can exchange technical information and just generally shoot the breeze. But the issue of “vendor bashing” is something that has always been part of the new user agreement that every members agrees to (assuming they take the time to read what they are agreeing too, which I realize may be wishful thinking):
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4. No vendor bashing! If you have a problem with a vendor, take it up with the vendor. Don't use this forum for registering complaints about any vendor or business.
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Please understand, I don't want to completely stifle discussions that may be important to others here, but I do want to avoid having some business unfairly slandered and end up having to fight a lawsuit (Amazon can afford a battery of lawyers, I can not); so let me clarify what I mean by vendor bashing. First, discussing the merits or lack therefore, on a technical level, of some product (like a filter for example), is not something I would usually consider vendor bashing and in fact a lot of those kinds of discussions go on here. If, in the course of a discussion of parts or services, you share that you had a less than great experience with a particular vendor that is usually ok too as long as you stick to the specifics of your experience. Anything beyond that, please take it to PM or email. Making blanket negative statements, like “those guys are dishonest and a bunch of crooks,” or “those guys are a bunch of scam artists,” are NOT acceptable. If you feel that a business has engaged in dishonest or illegal tactics, your first course of action should be to try and resolve it with them and, failing that, pursue your own lawsuit if you think it’s warranted or call the state’s attorney general. If you make a statement that implicates a business in dishonest or illegal activity, I have no way to assess the situation since I am not a lawyer or a judge. Even if you are convinced that such a statement is true, it is the kind of unsubstantiated generality that could result in a lawsuit (and the end of BCF).
The tricky part is deciding what legitimate discussion is and what is potentially libelous. I know that a lot of that kind of “sharing” goes on here, and I don’t think I could be accused of being too heavy handed in moderating this place. But, the bottom line is, exercise a little common sense and discretion when discussing vendors, and avoid making blanket statements that could be slanderous, even if you are convinced they are true. If you are not sure, you can always ask me before posting. In the end though, if I am not comfortable with the direction a thread is taking, and I delete it, I ask that you respect that decision.
As I said in my first reply, I have been threatened with a lawsuit once before and whether it would have been a legitimate lawsuit or not, BCF would have closed its doors forever. That kind of stuff detracts from the fun of running this place, and when it ceases being fun, then it ceases being.
As Forrest Gump would say: “and that’s all I have to say about that.”
Basil