The original holds up well because it never really touched the crank. It's a tight clearance, but not an actual "seal" It only really work while the engine is running and the scroll in the crank slings the oil back into the sump. when the engine stops, the oil drips out a little.
the key to using an original setup is to have the centering tool to line up the two halves of the "seal" correctly. otherwise it'll leak a lot more than it should, and may wear agenst the crank.
I think the key to a good "retrofit" is in the machining. as long as that's done properly the new seal should work beautifully.
Can't give you a first hand comparison of offered kits. And mine will be getting the original type "seal" as I don't mind the drip so much.. I think it's part of the charecter of the car. (not a necessary one, but still part of it)