The gear-drive starters make an easy way to mix-n-match flywheels, as they will work with any exhaust and any gearbox. A local friend of mine even took his starter back to the vendor and got it converted to the other flywheel type.
Should be no problem using the TR3/4 'finger' clutch in a 4A, but be sure to change the throw-out bearing to match. The TR3/4 clutch takes a flat face bearing instead of the rounded face used with the 4A clutch. ISTR the bearing carrier is different as well, but I could be mistaken on that point.