There are at least a couple different things being discussed here, and I think some may be getting mixed up, ride quality and bushing deformation under load,
I will stand by my statement about the rubber abssorbing some of the loads of, for want of a better term, road vibratio, I don't know how else to state it other than if the tire is pushed up from directly beneath the car the force should be theoretically be taken up by the motion of the suspension (trailing arm up and down) but the fact of the matter is that forces from the side or slightly front and back act on the wheels in real world conditions, and in these cases the rubber bushings could absorb some of the shock for both less load on the mounts and possibly a perceptably smoother/quieter ride.
As far as deforming under load, I don't think they did it over time, I have front annd rear sway bars and 205/65s on the car and was driving in a solo speed event, the bushing deformed fairly suddenly under load, I found reference to others experiencing this on the VTR or Six Pack forum don't remember which.
My goal is to upgrade the car performancewise, but I don't want to compromise ride quality and noise to the point where it is not pleasent to drive around in, hence my questions about the effects fo the nylatron bushes. I did not think the ride quality was bad with the poly, but I never drove it stock, so don't have much to compare it to.
I also contacted the vendor that sold them to me, pointing out a possible safety issue, didn't ask for another set, bought them a couple years ago, but just got the car back on the road a few months ago. They told me they would send me another set, and said that they had had prior sets with hardness issues, but were testing samples from the sets they have now, since they are coming to me at the right price I will try them out. I am sure they will be fine for regular road use and the real test will be the autocross coming up in a couple months...