Rob - "ACK! I unscrewed the diaphragm from the actuator, and didn't count the turns... ugh..." Naughty, naughty, for that the gods of SU will certainly punish you. All is not lost - e-mail me and I'll send you an assembly and adjustment procedure put out by said, same gods (AKA Burlen Fuel Systems), but only if you will promise to throw away your tube of RTV and never, ever consider using it anywhere in the presence of petroleum products. It has a nasty habit of swelling in the presence of gas and oil, oozing out from the joints and forming little balls that gum up everything. If you must use a joint sealer (and it really isn't necessary on the fuel pump), use something like Rectoseal or Permatex #2, but use it VERY sparingly.
There was a time when a plastic film was put over the main diaphragm material, but it is no longer used. I have found that it often interferes with the smooth operation of the pump and when it does so, I remove it with no detrimental effects. The new diaphragm that you get will not have the plastic film.
There is one gasket that will sometimes leak, making it look like the diaphragm is leaking, but most of the time, the leak is caused by loose screws attaching the coil housing to the pump body. When you put the pump back together, use some #10 lock washers under the screws to insure that they don't loosen again.
Cheers,