I think that one of theings that we are seeing is the reult of a change in the materials used.
(The following is my opinion and isn't based on any factual information that I have).
When our cars were new, I think that most of the elastomeric parts in them were made from a vulcanized rubber (either natural or synthetic). My guess, based on manufacturing economies is that most of the repro parts are now made from thermoplastic elastomers. The difference is that the thermoplastic compounds can be made in an injection molding machine by just about any plastic molding house (much more available than vulcanizing). That would apply to non-loadbearing parts (plugs, boots, gaiters, etc). The TPE materials are good materials but they won't hold up like a true thermoset rubber will.
For structural parts like bushings and engine mounts (which are still vulcanized rubber) I don't know what the reason is for the difference, but it could boil down to the amount of time that they hold the parts at temp and the rsulting level of vulcanization.
In the end it boils down to good economics; how much is a parts vendor willing to pay to his supplier for these parts? What makes it tougher is that I would guess that for a lot of our parts there is only one source, who then sells to all of the jobbers (VB, TRF, MM). The reason for that is that it is very difficult to recoup the cost of the mold tooling for these parts when the volumes are as low as what we use. It is not a big deal at all for a mold tool for low volume production to run over $30,000 and we have ones for production volumes that are over $500,000. These are not big or complicated tools either. So the end result is that in order to pay for the mold tool the molder needs to sell his parts to everyone he can and no single jobber can afford to have many parts made up just for him.
IMHO this is going to be a problem that we are going to have to continue to live with. One thing that may help some is that the newer thermoplastic rubbers are a lot better performing than the materials that were available even five years ago. So if our suppliers change to those rubbers we may see better life from our parts.
Dick