And a rather depressing and undignified disposal of what I am sure was to LeRoy and Sue a collection of treasured objects.
Perhaps in order to avoid such ignominy I should start going to my hoard of Healey and other crap and start throwing a lot of it out.
I am going to tell you a story about something that might have happened to me several months ago. I am going to label this a story because I don't know who all is on this forum and obviously my login is my name, albeit stuck together, and google is a great search engine. I don't need any more heartache over this. I am 47 years old so I am in the "recipient" age range rather than the "gifting" range.
The history is very long and rather hard to compress but I will try anyway. A former best friend of mines father, now in his mid 80's, and I have been pretty close for a long time. My parents joke and refer to him as "my other father". This is where the story could get exceedingly long but suffice it to say we have spent a lot of time together over the last 30-40 years, i.e. most of my life. He has three kids of his own, two not at all into cars of any sort to any degree and one, my former friend (we just drifted apart over time) who owns a small, two or sometimes three man, what would best be termed "hot rod shop". The gentleman is unique in that cars and working on and building cars is his life and that he is both a sportscar and hot rod guy.
A few years ago, shortly after the gentleman turned 80, he sort of decided he was not going to physically or mentally be able to build any more hot rods or restore any more sportscars. He also decided, like many do in that age group, to start divesting his collections. He sold off his Lionel collection, prepped antique firearms for sale, etc, and decided to start cleaning out the car parts from the basement so his wife wouldn't be burdened should he pass first.
One of the times I was down at their house 3 or 4 years ago to pick him up and take him out for lunch and visit, the gentleman and his wife sat me down and said how they are giving all the hot rod parts to their son with the shop and wanted me to have all the sportscar parts. I responded that I was uncomfortable taking them that their kids should have it. The response I got was "we know you will use and appreciate the parts, they will just sell it on ebay". I eventually gave in and took them, small amounts here and there until most all were taken. They were right in that I did greatly appreciate receiving those items and did use several of the parts on my Healey. When I let them know some time later that I had actually used some of the parts, it was plainly obvious it made them both VERY happy to see the stuff actually used by someone who was greatly appreciative.
Fast forward to 4 or 5 months ago. I receive a not so pleasant phone call from one of the children...
There's some ugliness I don't feel like re-hashing but I will sum up. I gave the items not already on the car back to the one child who graced me with that wonderful phone call. The gentleman found out I did that and was NOT happy. He demanded his children to return the items. When I finally got the boxes back from them, all parts of monetary value more than a few dollars were removed/missing. Bummer as I planned on using the original mirrors he gave me on my car.
Not sure if there is anything to be learned from this "story" by anyone else, but I sure did.