Sounds like the movie “Grand Torino” with Doc EastwoodThe "shift" over the last thirty or so years in young folks' attitudes away from personal responsibility is well evident. In the early eighties there were still kids with lawn mowers looking for a chance to earn some money. Now they're roaming around like zombies, their "buds" in their ears connected to their cell phones, listening to rap-cr@p and wishing they were "stars" of some description.
A number of the early teens here in th' 'hood with bicycles have NO idea how they work, they come to th' hovel for me to air up their tires, fix their brakes or adjust seats 'n handlebars. No interest in how to do it themselves, no attention to what it takes to make things work. I've lately explained that when I turn on the compressor, TECO charges me money. When I take a wrench out of the box, it had to be paid for at some point. Mostly I get blank stares. Disheartening.
My daughter and son in law got home after the Christmas break to find wet carpet in their basement. Called in a company to dry the carpet on New Years eve and were shocked at the $1000.00 bill.
All the company did was bring in a couple of big fans and a dehumidifier. A shop vac would probable have done the job just as well.
When they bought the house they were told that the sump pump was not working properly and the back up pump was doing all the work.
Did they fix the sump pump?
No "we will do that later" was the answer. Well it is later.
So now she is panicked because there is a crack in the concrete wall and the Foundation expert has quoted $20,000.00 to fix the problem. In the photos it looks like it has been weeping for a long time. Effervescence on the concrete around the crack and a sump pump.
The son in law has no idea about much in the practical field and is leaving it up to the Expert. I went up to visit a couple of years ago to gut their bath room. It had been on the list to do for several years but nothing was happening so I got roped in. Got it done in the weekend.
The next generation is in trouble.
David