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I haven't really been huge on the forum here for some time but things are looking like I will be parting ways for a bit. Putting the Spitfire in storage for the foreseeable future. Have a lot going on and about to have more. My fiance is sick. She has been sick for some time and we thought it was fight-able but has proven not to be. If she makes it to our wedding date in Oct. she will be lucky but looks like she won't go beyond next summer.

Probably over-sharing a bit, for that I'm sorry.
 
wow. Heavy news. you are in my prayers. keep us posted.
 
Very heavy news indeed. You'll be in our thoughts.
 
Sad news for all of us , we're thinking good thoughts
 
Bitter-sad news SD. We'll keep you in our thoughts.
 
Sad news indeed... all the best to everyone.
 
Very sorry to hear this news. Prayers to the both of you.
 
Gray_Cat said:
You're not oversharing and I know everyone here will be wishing you both nothing but best wishes.
Roy
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X2. I couldn't even begin to imagine.


Thanks for letting us know.

Pull the trigger now.


Ours is Oct 23.
 
If something happened to my best friend I would be devastated.
 
The movie by Erich Segal, "Love Story" comes to mind.
 
All our thoughts and prayers go with you.
Don't worry about us, you have important stuff to concern yourself with.
If you need us, we are here.

Dave and Annie :angel:
 
Love, light and prayers.........
 
Sad news, you'll both be in our prayers.
 
Hard times. We will be thinking of you and her and hoping for the best.
 
Weird as it may sound, I have to say that I am honored that you chose to share this with us.

Lots of folks in your - and her - corner here.

Peace,
Mickey
 
NOT over-sharing. I/we are so sincerely sorry for your circumstances. Hug each other and make good memories. It is easier for many of us to write our feelings than speak them and to be able to share with 'strangers' just seems to be easier.
 
First things first, I want to thank you guys; the out pouring of care and compassion has been almost beyond my comprehension and from the bottom of my heart I say "Thank You!".

Now for the serious part...

I was duped...





She is fine... She has never had cancer in her life... She lied to me for months and drew my family and her family and all of my friends and my employer deep into her line of crap...

So the wedding is off permanently and I'm dragging my Spitfire out of storage and she is being placed in a mental health facility.

I thank you all for your support and apologize for the deception.
 
Let me say I am very, very sorry for your situation.

(and I am sorry for her that she has this affliction)

We all learn from life's up and downs. You now have an opportunity to a have a positive and rewarding life.

I would move forward and I would not look back.
It sounds like this is your plan.

Focus on your car for now.....in my experience, it will serve you well.

Best of luck!
 
I'm very sorry to hear of this development also, I'm sure that this whole thing must be very difficult for you. If she is suffering from some sort of mental illness which caused her to employ such deception to gain attention, then we can only hope she gets the help she obviously needs.
 
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