I'm having the same problem. My tire guy recently said, "Look, man, you really need new wheels; the ones you have are about to throw rubber." And, he said for the same reasons listed here: ignorant tire guys in the past mounting and dismounting incorrectly. I saw the ones on eBay, too, and was a bit wary of them.
I really don't want new wheels that look much different from stock (racers, etc.). What do you think looks the most original being offered today?