The whole world seems to be in a tipping mood...I'm wondering why we tip people for doing the job they're paid for in a manner that's expected? To me, a tip is for something a person does above and beyond what's expected.
I expect the car to be delivered on time & in the same condition as when it was loaded...no tip necessary for that.
I expect my hair to be cut as prescribed...no tip necessary for that.
I expect my mail to be delivered into my mailbox on time & the box door closed...no tip necessary for that.
....etc., etc., etc.
There are industries where tipping is considered part of the salary (i.e., wait staff) and in those industries, I probably overtip according to my wife and daughter; but, unless a person goes above what I expect of them, no tip.
Tipping once in a non-tipping industry actually only causes people to expect tips - and when they don't get them, we get shoddy service.
coldplugs said:
We recently had a trailer dropped off so we could load it ourselves over several days and the driver spent about a half hour just getting it into position so that it'd be easier for us to access. (It was very challenging terrain - top of a muddy hill etc). I tipped him a little more than lunch and when it turned out we needed another trailer a few weeks later we got the same driver. The second time, he really outdid himself to make things easy for us.
If he was expected to put the trailer where you asked for it to be put as part of the contract, no tip necessary; if he did so on his own volition and time, sure, tip was appropriate. But, I'll bet he also expected a hefty tip the 2nd time around!