jaybird said:
I thought it was obvious Bret. I was astounded no one had said that. So thank you for the Cajones el Grande. Now I have a spare pair!
Thats twice as many as most of the guys I know. /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:]You've spent a lot of time all about everyone else, including your 6 kidlets. It's time for all about Bret. [/QUOTE]
Preaching to the choir there JB, preaching to the choir.
I’m so done making babies and truthfully I wouldn’t begrudge someone who turned down being with me because I still had two little tadpoles that I share custody with.
But I don’t have a problem with and could actually see myself with someone who has small children still at home that are about the same ages as my girls. Reason is I think they would be in a better position to understand my situation, than say someone who’s already kicked their young’ins out of the nest already or worst never had kids before..
The later of (never had children) I would avoid or at lest be hesitant about getting involved with. But would consider it depending on their age as well as the understanding that some women can’t have children, or didn’t for whatever reason want to try.
I just don’t want to get into another situation where I get involve with someone who says they don’t want kids only to change their mind at some point down the road. Now at the time I was ok with it but that was ten years ago. Today I’m older and just don’t feel the need to go down that road again.
One thing is for sure – is that anybody who says that they want kids, waffles or is hesitant about having wanting children is “off limits” to me. That’s why the ideal candidate for me is someone who is about my age (+/-4yrs), is divorced and who has already had children. Young children are ok, but not too young – with older children already out of the house being the best.