Michael,
While the BN1 & BN7 top frames are different, they still work on the same principle. The tension of the fabric tries to pull the bow down, the webbing straps hold it up. If you will notice, the pic I attached of a BN7 top, shows the bow being below the top seam. I suspect your top has the bow positioned at the balance point. If it were moved back slightly, maybe the fabric would try to pull the bow down against the web tension.
Compare the distance from rear shroud to top seam on another similar car.
Maybe your top was just made wrong with the seam too high in relation to the bow assembly. Maybe the webbing is just a little too short. If the top is cut & fitted properly, there should be quite a bit of down force on the bow to prevent it from moving forward. Can you easily push the bow forward?
I don't think any amount of added friction will help for long.
D