Sensible post, Bob . . .
On a new or newish vehicle, I'd follow the manufacturer's recommendation without hesitation.
I was reflecting on my dialog with the other "Joe" and what came to mind is that we were having the discussion in a context as if the cooling system was going to contain 100% water. I'd never use 100% deionized water and I doubt that anyone here would dream of doing so. 50% distilled water? I still don't see a problem. We did not touch on the probability that distilled water may interact with the anti-freeze in such a way as to render any concerns moot.
I think the underlying concern in choosing distilled water over tap water is the potential for mineral content in "hard water" causing problems in the long run. It's the demineralization people are after.
In my case, the tap water available to me is relatively soft.
I have an inexpensive (under $25) Sunny brand Chinese TDS&EC electronic tester purchased through Amazon and the particulates in my tap water are in the range of 60 to 80 PPM. So, no problem blending tap water with "the green stuff."
When I replaced my radiator recently and flushed the block, I was pleasantly surprised that what came out of the engine was free of any observable particles.
Edit, aside for the curious among us: I bought the TDS&EC tester, not for the Healey, but because we had a well dug to use for irrigation water. Some plants were doing OK while others were dying. We live near a canal. Turns out that, while our well-driller told us the well water was suitable, it tested as 1500 to 1800 PPM of particulates which, in our case meant we were watering our garden with brackish water. Good thing I did not use that water for the Healey!
