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Been a rough week

Basil

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As most of you know, I teach, and am my state's coordinator for, the NAMI Family-to-Family education program. The course is aimed at educating family caregivers of individuals with serious mental illness (Depression, BiPolar, Schizophrenia, etc). The class helps them understand the nature of these illnesses as real biological illnesses and gives them some tools and skills (problem solving, communications, self-care) to better cope with and help their ill loved ones.

We just finished one of these courses in June and one of the ladies, I'll just call her Estelle, was taking the class for her daughter, Tomasita, 23, who had Schizophrenia along with Diabetes.

Wednesday of last week I got an email from one of the other class members telling me that Estelle's 23 year old daughter, who had just suffered another major psychotic break, had been found dead. Due to her pshychotic break she had stopped taking her medication, not just for her schizophrenia, but also her diabetes medication. They believe she went into a diabetic coma and died.

Then, if that wasn't bad enough, last night I got a text message from my Daughter-in-Law's father telling me that my DIL's 25 year old brother had been found dead earlier that day. My DIL was at work until 8PM that night so we went to her and my son's apartment to be there when she came home so we could tell her what had happened. It was a very difficult evening last night. No details are known, but a drug overdose is suspected. "Nick" had been fighting demons of alchohol and drugs for years and his family often talked about this as a real possibility if he couldn't get his life straightened out. Nevertheless, he is gone now and of course the family is understandably devistated.
 
That's horrible news, and terribly difficult to be involved so closely.

Your own experiences in teaching and involvement in that area are great sources of strength when you can share them with those you love.

Tom
 
Awful news.... sorry you and your family have to go through it.
 
Rough stuff indeed, boss. Very sorry to hear it.
 
What a miserable few days. Sorry to hear all that.
 
Sorry to hear it boss, they (and you) are in our prayers
 
Doug and I are so very sorry for what you all must be feeling. There are no words that can help but know that if either of us can do anything, even just feeding the cat, we stand ready. You only need to let us know. Hugs/Handshakes
 
My thoughts and prayers, Basil.
 
Boss,

Man,you've had a tough year - I hope it gets better.
It's never easy to deal with these things,even if you know it's
coming.

- Doug
 
Bad. These things take a lot out of those left behind. Sorry.
 
Double whammy! Prayers coming from here too.
 
Sorry to hear about this, I know some folks who work with homeless people with very similar stories and lots of heartbreak, my thoughts and prayers are with you...
 
Boss , don't have any actual experience with Emotional traumas so I can only offer my wishes on you.

My nephew has been fighting addiction problems for years and is now clean goig on 15 Months after 5 tries at rehab.
He's had a tough life including fighting flesh eating bacteria 3 times with the first at 14 years old which sent him on his spiral downward .
So I can relate thee.

Goodness knows all of us wish you well
 
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