Dale: <span style="font-style: italic">Living within your means</span>
Dar100: <span style="font-style: italic">Why is that so hard, for so many, to grasp???</span>
Ain't it the truth. But when you look over the last 20 years or so, at the way young people are conditioned to "want stuff" ... not so hard to grasp, I'm afraid.
Neighbor's son turned 16, parents buy him an Italian sports car. Takes private sports coaching lessons (tennis, golf, etc.) plus a different sport every day after school. Has *never* done any outdoor work - dad does it all. Rented a $100/hr stretch limo so 16 year old can impress his 18 year old girlfriend.
Other neighbor is 30 but acts 15; drug/alcohol addiction, no job, punk rocker, owns the house but his parents pay his mortgage each month. Throws garbage out the door to rot.
Parents often don't teach their children the value of work; instead, they just give them stuff (or cash, or credit cards and make the payments). Good grief - 12 year old girls in makeup wearing skirts that you'd never approve on your wife. Joke about it? Not very smart.
"Bling" is cool. If you brag about the "stuff" you've got, and your kids think that's the important thing in life - well, guess what - that's the direction the kids will go. Buy more toys, regardless of your age, your kids will want more toys too. Hopefully they're learning to work for it, but I'm afraid that's a dying trend.
Whatever stuff children see in their home, they usually think that's the norm - the baseline below which they'll never drop.
The Federal Reserve can't guarantee loans to *every* investment bank that's shaky. But Bear Stearns most likely isn't unique, and its employees have lost a huge portion of their retirement and their security.
T.