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A personal Milestone - 50 years ago today, 22 November.

Basil

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What follows is a stream of consciousness. It was on this day, exactly 50 years ago, that I raised my hand and took the oath for active duty in the US Air Force. That same day I was bussed to the now defunct Stapleton International Airport in Denver to board a plane to San Antonio. It was there I met Tom Cabazos who would become my best bud during basic training. He had sworn in with me but we didn't meet until we were waiting for our plane.

Any time we had time off we were together usually sightseeing in San Antonio. I remember going to see the Poseidon Adventure with Tom when it first hit the theaters. Also, he had an aunt in San Antonio and I was invited to Christmas dinner at their home when we had a 3 day Christmas break. Tom always had a big smile on his face (except for when the TI was around of course), as you can see from the attached snap. He made going though basic training much easier.

Tom did not make it a career and got out after his four years was up. He had gone into security services. I remember some time in the early eighties, I looked up his family when I was home on leave in Denver. I called his mother and learning that Tom had been in a very bad car accident and was in the hospital. Of course I went to visit him and, though he was in pretty bad shape, he still had the sense of humor I remembers.

Just recently (and I think I posted about this before), I discovered he had sadly died in 1998. From his memorial page, I saw he had a son, Brandon, who I was able to connect with by email. His son had also joined the Air Force and had a 20 year career in Air Craft maintenance. I know his Dad would have been very proud. Tom knew that his son was going to join, but passed before he was sword in. What his son relayed to me was that, some time after I had seen Tom in the hospital, he had to have one of his legs aputated. This caused him to suffer pretty severe depression and he became a heavy drinker. It was the drink, per his son, that eventually killed him (liver disease). I wish I had stayed in better contact with Tom over the years.

Anyway, it's hard to believe that day I took the oath was 50 years ago today! I've now been retired longer than I served, and I served 24 years. Been retired now for almost 27 years. As Basil Fawlty would say "Zoom!" "What was that?" "That was you life mate." "Oh, that was quick, do I get another?" "Sorry mate, that's your lot."

PS: Yes, I joined on the 9th anniversary of JFK's assassination. If you wish to discuss that event, there is a separate thread. Thanks.

(I restored this one in Photoshop)
Basil Training with TomPS.jpg


Cy shot by Tom Lackland-0283.jpg


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Tom was interred in the small town of Riverton in central Wyoming, presumably that;'s where they settled because his wife was from there. Rest in peace my friend:
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Great photos and memories!

(You should smile more when you're photographed ...)
 
(You should smile more when you're photographed ...)
I've been told that before LOL! Tom did enough smiling for both of us. The guy always had a smile and was always cracking jokes. Man I have such great memories of him, even though we were only together for 8 weeks and didn't stay in much contact over the years.
 
Tom’s got a million dollar smile, that’s for sure.

Thank you for your service!
 
great friends and great memories - congrats
 
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