Yes that is one tight mama--- if you lose your place with counting the turns, what you are trying to achieve is the same as setting a front well bearing kinda, but this time you are getting the nut tight in a way that it takes 100lbs of torque to hold it with a cotter key, yet the bearing (which looks like a wheel bearing and race) spins free with a small drag, so you set the clearance with shims. I always get dyslexic here, but you add shims and it is looser.??? I think there are 3 maybe 4 shims.
Get the car up high enough so you can move and still have leverage to tighten 100lbs on a nut and feel some drag at the yoke. You will feel the drag and it does not have to be much----just a fuzz, but I think the number like 7lb drag holding force “something”
steve