I like the idea of seeing an auto detailer. Really,
looks like a buffing out of sorts involving very,
very fine finishing wet sanding...4000 grit comes to
mind....maybe even 2000...though carefully and
with respectable amount of caution. Then you'd go to
a rubbing/polishing compound of some sort.
All said, by the time you chased to acquire the proper
equipment like an auto polisher; buffing compounds
and wet sandpaper, you probably could have paid an auto
detailer....unless, of course, they price their work
not on time and materials, but on what they perceive
they will save you from having to paint.
If that happens and they are out of line to try
something for you that might not even work to your
satisfaction, I can provide one each of the very
fine sanding pads of 4000 and 2000, if you wanted
to try; but then you gotta buff it out... and while
it's not likely, if you leave a buffer on too fast in
one place for too long, you could compound your
problem by "burning through" your clear coat, if any
there be.
Try a little hand rubbing with a rubbing compound
before we get all too excited, though. That might
just bring her around well enough.
Best wishes,