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Spiderwebs & the female mind!

Bret

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Warning the road sign says - <span style="color: #CC0000"> "RANT AHEAD" </span>

So what’s the deal with women! /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wall.gif

They tell ya they want one thing and the more you try to fight’em on it – the more vigorous & determined they get about it having it their way. So the minute you give in and relent – all of a sudden they do a 180 on you and they’re not sure or decide that maybe that’s not what they really wanted in the first place. <groan /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif >

Now I’m not new to the perplexing inter-workings of the female mind but this has always been one aspect of relations with the fairer sex that has annoyed me to no end. /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/nonod.gif

To the lady's reading this (JB /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif ) - Don’t get me wrong I am well aware that we males can be quite contradictory & stubborn in our thought patterns too. In truth I’ve noticed & have been told that generally speaking - dispite this, we guys are somewhat linear & even a little predictable in our thought patterns. Often taking either a horizontal or vertical back & fourth methodology to things even when being stupid to the Nth degree.

Whereas the female mind seems to be an enigmatic spider web of slants & skews, branching out in all directions simultaneously. That the more I understand – the less I know.

Ok - rant over. I feel a little better now. Still confused – but better none the less.
 
Wow Bret

take the shark out for a little spin, that would work for me

Patrick
 
Thanks Patrick,

Yes I'm just venting here rather than do it in front of her and am just playing the "PhyOps" game in the War of the Sexes.

Cheers,
Bret
 
I just nod and smile alot. /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif
 
Women, and LBC's, can't live with em, can't live without them. Both provide plenty of great times, and plenty of pain. Both are in your wallet more than needed, both can take you for a nice ride. What are you going to do? Part of life. ( You can also add kids to the list also).
 
Why is it a "war" between the sexes?
 
I'm not touching any of this, I've been married for 22 years and I'm just getting the hang of it, I can't speak with any kind of usable info here, good luck!
 
23 years of marriage here. If my wife says she wants to paint the house lime green, I go and get a paintbrush.
 
kyreb1862 said:
The secret to a happy marriage is, if she washes you dry.
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terriphill said:
kyreb1862 said:
The secret to a happy marriage is, if she washes you dry.
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Confucius say: If she wishee...you washee!!! /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif
 
I married my best friend. After six kids and who cares how many years, she's still my best friend. This works for us, but everyone else is different.
Dave
 
Thanks gents, but it's a little beyond advice at this point but thanks for the advice. I'm just in ranting mode right now - nothing more.

14dna said:
I married my best friend. After six kids and who cares how many years, she's still my best friend. This works for us, but everyone else is different.
Dave
And that's the sad part of all this. In that piror to all this she was my best friend.
 
35 years and counting and I wouldn't change a thing ,HOWEVER watch out for the mentalpause
 
dar100 said:
I'm not touching any of this, I've been married for 22 years and I'm just getting the hang of it, I can't speak with any kind of usable info here, good luck!


I'm with you, Dave. We'll just sit here an' have a beer. /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cheers.gif
 
DrEntropy said:
dar100 said:
I'm not touching any of this, I've been married for 22 years and I'm just getting the hang of it, I can't speak with any kind of usable info here, good luck!


I'm with you, Dave. We'll just sit here an' have a beer. /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cheers.gif

And I'll join you.(with my coffee,of course.) /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/thumbsup.gif

Stuart. /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/cheers.gif
 
Shinsen774 said:
23 years of marriage here. If my wife says she wants to paint the house lime green, I go and get a paintbrush.

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Re: Spiderwebs & the female mind!

weewillie said:
35 years and counting and I wouldn't change a thing ,HOWEVER watch out for the mentalpause

Just curious, did you mean MEN O PAUSE???? /bcforum/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/angel.gif
 
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