JP - I've called and left messages three times, with the dealership as well as the dealer himself. My gut feeling (often wrong!) is that dealers/sellers don't want customers who actually know to ask for details. The huge rise in numbers of people buying online, sight unseen, makes it easier for dealers to ignore "real people", and only respond to "cool car, clear title? send it" emails.
grumble grumble
Anyway, I'm hoping this works out. If I get some kind of human response that's relatively positive, I'll drive up there this weekend.
Thanks.