With a 20 year age difference between the oldest and youngest, Chuck & I always have spent a lot more time with 3 of the 4 youngest girls. Alice is 48, Dottie is 52, Martha is my age. We spend a LOT of time with them. Less with the older girls. I think that's probably natural.
Thanks for your kind thoughts. We're all fine. The funeral will be hard on Chuck's mom and the siblings. But, with creamation and no burial, it will be very short.
Parents aren't supposed to bury their children. But when you're 90 years old, that is more likely to happen. But Mom's handling it pretty well now, her faith is strong and has carried her through some very VERY hard times. And as cliche as it sounds, Pauline went almost instantly. Her physical quality of life was pretty poor. She's whole again.