Hi,
I don't think the slight outward curve in the spring is an issue unless it's to the point where the spring actually rubs against the inside of the upper mounting area. This would eventually remove paint from the spring, allowing rust which can in turn cause a spring to break eventually. Seems to me most of these springs have some outward curve when fully installed and partly compressed.
The upper fulcrum mounting bolts and nuts should not interfere with the spring, though, and too long bolts can be a problem. If you are fairly sure they are contacting the spring, I'd remove it all and cut the bolts down to a proper length. To do so, with the spring removed but the upper fulcrum still bolted snugly in place, look up inside the spring mount and see if the bolts are more than a thread or two longer than the nuts. If so, mark them with a Sharpie or similar, then take them out one at a time and cut down to size.
I'm not sure if you are referring to the upper or lower rebound rubber. I suspect you mean the lower one. At Moss' web page
https://www.mossmotors.com/Shop/ViewProducts.aspx?PlateIndexID=29136 item #113 is the upper, #126 is the lower.
If the upper, it usually needs to be installed loosely before the shocks and bottom stop/bracket are installed, while the suspension is at full extension.
If the lower bump stop is the one you are having trouble with, This bump stop and bracket are the last items to install, after springs, shocks and everything else are all bolted back in place. First install the rubber part securely onto the bracket that will mount to the frame. Then put some weight on the suspension to lift it a little and make room to install the bracket back onto the frame with the two long, 5/16" bolts.
How you compress the suspension to install the bottom bump stop and bracket is your choice: You can just lower the car back onto the ground. Or, if the car is up on stands for example, put a jack under the tire on the side you want to install and lift. Do the latter carefully because the wheel can rotate and push the jack out from under it pretty easily. Either way you choose, you are using the car's weight to compress the suspension a little and that will give the room needed to install the lower bump/bracket.
Hope this answers your questions.
Alan