Hi Rob,
After recently plating all my fasteners and a number of other small widgets, I'd totally recommend sending them to a plating company as it is so cheap. NZ$90 (US$70) for every fastener on the car and all existing zinc parts except a few I forgot.
The process I used is:
1) photograph all items in their original location to identify bolt head markings (wire brush to clean off dirt where necessary). photograph all thread lengths and washer markings and include the part they came off in the photos to save confusion. take heaps of pics. Note the thickness of washers and spring washers, there are many different styles for different applications.
2) soak everything in sodium hydroxide solution to remove all the grease and crud. wash with water.
3) soak everything in 25% hydrochloric acid (spirits of salts, used for cleaning concrete). This will remove all rust and all existing plating except chrome. wash with water. Acid does attack steel but only very slowly. I left the very rusty items in overnight with no noticeable loss of metal.
4) dip in sodium hydroxide to neutralise the acid and wash with water, then dry with a heat-gun until completely dry.
5) wire-wheel everything to polish. don't harshly wire-wheel any pressed steel items as the wheel scratch marks will show through the zinc. A brass wire wheel would be a good option I think, wish I had one now that I look over my speedo housing and wish I hadn't tried to polish it...
6) using tie-wire, string up all small items such as nuts, washers etc. bend the tie wire ends well so they can't come undone
7) put all the parts in a 'fish bin' with a lid and have them barrel-plated by a competent plater. Ensure all plated items are oven baked at 200 degC for min one hour. This does two things- it removes any risk of hydrogen embrittlement if any hardened fasteners are plated (don't plate ultra-high strength fasteners but Healeys don't have any anyway so it isn't an issue) and it also takes the shine off the finish to a more matt (better looking IMO) finish.
8) set up a PC and monitor on the work bench and go through the photos identifying the hardware and returning it to the original location. I'm at this stage now, it is quite rewarding.
The results for even the most rusty parts is quite remarkable. All of the above steps are necessary for home plating except (7) so I don't see any advantage in home plating which risks not getting enough thickness to the zinc and having the whole lot go rusty after the first rain shower.
Oh and don't put nylock nuts in the acid or alkali, they won't have any nylock function left after about ten minutes! I need to buy some more nylocks :-(
Andy.