Hi Roger,
If the springs are reasonably good, there should be about two inches of clearance between the top of the rubber bumpers & their upper contact surface. This clearace will give about four inches of compression travel at the wheel. Plus, it's ok for the bumpers to hit once in a while which would give an additional inch of compression travel.
At the same time, I would expect about one inch of clearance between the lower side of the shock arm & it's rebound bumper below it. This would give about two inches of rebound travel at the wheel.
Measure this compression distance (clearance) after the jacks are lowered & the car rolled forward or back a bit. If it is just lowered, the wheels will be in a bind & the suspension will not be in it's normal position.
I still don't know what to make of the pic. Are the bumpers securely mounted to the lower spring seat. It almost looks like the rubber was damaged previously by some kind of tool. Some strange pry bar or spring compressor. I've seen some pretty well pounded bumpers that didn't have cuts or gouges in them.
I think I might try replacing the rubber bumpers & try it for a while. See if it happens again. Especially if the above measurments are within a half inch either way. My car is lowered a bit in front, has about 2.5 inches of compression travel, & the 40 year old rubber bumpers aren't even marked. I just use them as part of the suspension.
As has been said, good compression damping in the shocks will do a lot to ease the strain on the rubber bumpers. I don't know how to describe the correct feel for good shocks. I do know it is a lot stiffer than a person would suspect. I thought my old shocks were pretty stiff, but the rebuilt ones were about three times as stiff. It's just downright hard to move the front bumper either up or down quickly. Certainly can't bounce it at all. Maybe Peter at NOS Imports can better describe how they should feel.
D