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I was parked, and in the store getting groceries and my (increasingly long list of) prescriptions. You probably know the drill. I carried the bags out to my new Nissan Altima, opened the driver door, and heard a voice behind me say "Sir - I hit your car".

Looked back and saw a teenage guy, pale as a ghost, standing next to a 2002 Jeep Bronco.

Walked up to him, and saw he was actually shaking he was so scared. Said he had just called his Dad (cell phone), because he didn't really know what to do. He had bashed into the rear panel of my car, scuffing some paint, and pushing it slightly out of place.

Long story short, I traded insurance and ID info with the young man (19 years old), and with his Dad when he arrived a few minutes later. But more important, I really praised and thanked the kid for his honesty. His dad told me he had always taught his son to be honest and "do the right thing". I turned toward the kid and said "you taught him well - and you should be proud of him".

We shook hands, and to lighten the mood, I then told them both of the time in 1971 (yes, we had cars back then ...) when I was stopped at a traffic light, and a ditzy teeny-bopper bashed her pickup into my rear bumper (on my brand new Plymouth Duster). She then did it two more times within 30 seconds. At least she was consistent. I turned off my engine and walked back to her. She looked at me, giggled, and said "it happens all the time - i'm so sorry".

Dingbat. She's probably serving her fifth term in Congress now.

Anyway, no great damage. The other guy's insurance should cover everything. Main idea was to praise the kid for staying there, when he could just as easily have driven off, since I wasn't in my car at the time. Just proves there are a few good kids left.

I have no idea how to tell what "damage" was caused, as the big panel is plastic and I don't know what's under it.

Onward through the fog.
Tom
 
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:]Dingbat. She's probably serving her fifth term in Congress now.[/QUOTE]

Maybe she's running Homeland Security?

There are good kids out there and some do have long hair, piercings and wear clothes that we think are weird.

Remember the 50's (motorcycle jackets and boots every parent hated) the 60's - (ultra mini skirts and Beatles hair cuts) 70's - two words - DISCO and BIG hair

Nuff said....
 
Lots of good kids - good on you for affirming that in the midst of a tense situation.
 
I had a similar kid/"car" experience lately. My son and I recently joined the Cub Scout troop at school. The main event this time of year is the Pinewood Derby. I made a Danica Patrick / Go Daddy racer (it looks like a driver kneeling - I'll post pictures later). Anyway, one of the scouts picked it up and dropped it, breaking off one of the arms. He did the absolute right thing by telling an adult what had happened. His parents called me over and showed me the broken car ( it wasn't finished then, btw). I looked at the little guy and his chest was heaving and his body was shaking and HUGE tears were pouring down his face. I thanked him for being truthful and honest and owning up to what happened. Then I got the superglue and fixed it and showed him it was alright. It could have been SO easy for him to pick up the pieces, drop them back in the box and pretend he hadn't done it. That's a good kid there. :smile:
 
Yes, there are still some good ones out there.

I am very proud of most of them, my daughters

especially.

When Amy backed into the 1/4 panel of the
Mercedes sports car, (it was a 2007) she
waited in the parking lot for the guy to get
back to his car and tell him, sobbing for almost
an hour until he got back to his car,

Then and only then after she exchanged all the info needed
did she call me and it went like this.

"Dadddddddy, the Tahoe is ok"
Me......"Huhhhhh???"
"Don't worry, the guy was really nice, old,like you"
Me......"Whattttttttttttt??????"
"I was backing up and we were laughing and I just tapped his car,
but don't worry, there isn't a scratch on the Tahoe".
Me...............Whennnnnnnnnnn?????????
"He said for me not to worry, that the insurance should take care of eveything!"
Me "What happened???"
"Oh, I just backed into this Mercedes, I'm on my way home now, see you in a few"
She was right, not a scratch on the Tahoe.
But $9000 later for the pushed in creased 1/4 panel on the Mercedes sports car.

Oh to be 17 and have parents that have insurance.
 
And that young boy will remember that treatment for the rest of his life and use that experience to help another person someday.
 
Everybody makes mistakes or screws up from time to time. It's the true measure of a person after something goes wrong. Do they make things right or do they make excuses?
 
Or do they get older and still find a way to make money by it???
 
Much better story of the unknown idiot that caved in the brand-new quarter panel on my parents MGB in the parking lot of a local pizza joint, less than a month after we painted the whole car. Of course no one saw anything.
 
Banjo said:
Much better story of the unknown idiot that caved in the brand-new quarter panel on my parents MGB in the parking lot of a local pizza joint, less than a month after we painted the whole car. Of course no one saw anything.

I'm pretty sure it was doc in the Alfa :devilgrin:
 
Gliderman8 said:
Banjo said:
Much better story of the unknown idiot that caved in the brand-new quarter panel on my parents MGB in the parking lot of a local pizza joint, less than a month after we painted the whole car. Of course no one saw anything.

I'm pretty sure it was doc in the Alfa :devilgrin:

can't be, no way an Alfa could drive away from a scenario like that - at least not without a trail of rust.
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