Wangdango
If you have a copy of the Anderson/Moment Healey Restoration Guide, there's a good picture of the matte grille treatment on page 163, with the corresponding comment as follows: "...the oval(grille surround) was painted with a band of dull flat light grey paint on the part next to the grille slats, apparently intended to prevent reflection of the slats..." . Basically you mask off the inner half of the grille surround at the "break" point, all the way around. It's a bit fussy especially at the corners, but if you use a thin masking tape, it'll go around the corner nicely. Again I used some light grey primer that I had left over from a welding job, but I would imagine any good primer or matte silver paint would do.
I haven't figured out how to attach photos to my comments, but I'll send you a personal memo, with my email, and I can download a couple of photos of my grille/grille surround to give the idea...
Cheers, Dave