I've bought & sold MANY cars using various methods:
-Cash at Delivery/Pick-Up (face to face)
-Cashier's Check, w car delivered after funds clear
-PayPal
-1st Born Offspring (not really, but I considered it...)
-& yes, Wire Transfer. Usually into my "dedicated" account (transferring funds out immediately & keeping balance low so as to minimize any potential future access issues).
All methods can be safe, as long as you take the proper precautions.
Your Buyer sounds legit enuf, and he IS offering you various payment options. So you can choose the method that you are most comfortable with, and be certain that the funds are legit & clear before releasing the car.
(& yes, I've even been known to buy cars from the opposite side of the US, and occasionally even from overseas. This is NOT that uncommon! Cars from certain regions can be in much better condition, primarily due to low "tin-worm" populations, and can be worth the extra effort and cost involved. For example, I currently have 2 Spridgets waiting for me in AZ. These will soon be on their way to GA, & I might opt to grab 1 or 2 more along the way... Transportation costs are really not as bad as one might think... IF you do your homework 1st.)
-IF you do the wire xfer, be sure to ask your bank for advise & use a dedicated account.
-IF you do the Cashier's Check be sure that funds clear before you ship or release the car.
-IF you do Cash at Delivery/Pick-Up be certain that the cash is real & not counterfeit! (Yes, it does occasionally happen! Take large sums to your bank to verify authenticity.)
-IF you do PayPal, decide up front who will pay the PayPal fees. (Circumstances can vary, so adjust fee responsibility accordingly.)
-& IF you barter off your 1st Born Offspring you might want to enter the "witness relocation" program immediately after, as buyer's remorse is likely.
LOTS of other good advise above!
Read it all over & you'll have gained years of experience in the process. You should then be "good to go" on making a smart decision after that! :thumbsup:
BTW: I've recently sold 5 cars, in 4 different transactions. 3 of these were paid for via wire transfers, and 1 was paid via Cashier's Check. All 4 involved a faxed or mailed copy of the title (usually with sensitive areas blanked out). 3 of the 4 were done long distance, 1 was face to face. In all cases I took the appropriate precautions to protect myself.
Side Note: Yes, there are a few "bad eggs" out there who do their best to ruin the trust and comraderie that surrounds this hobby. BUT most of the guys/gals I've met over the years through this hobby (including via buying & selling) have been absolutely GREAT people! I chose this hobby because of my love for the cars, but the people are a huge part of making this hobby so enjoyable!
TRY to not forget that, BUT do take steps to protect yourself!!
"Cheers!"
-Bear-